[Should I do that? It's a serious question.
Quote from: Risso on May 29, 2024, 02:35:54 PMI know Jon Fear gets a bad rap at times, but he's got the right idea in my opinion and told them that his group will have nothing more to do with the meetings.Should I do that? It's a serious question.
I know Jon Fear gets a bad rap at times, but he's got the right idea in my opinion and told them that his group will have nothing more to do with the meetings.
Quote from: dave.woodhall on May 29, 2024, 08:40:23 PMQuote from: Risso on May 29, 2024, 02:35:54 PMI know Jon Fear gets a bad rap at times, but he's got the right idea in my opinion and told them that his group will have nothing more to do with the meetings.Should I do that? It's a serious question. Hi, i hardly ever post on here but have been reading the site pretty much every day for many years.I think it's important that H&V have a representative at the table, even if Villa don't treat the meetings seriously. Over time you'd hope certain messages and sentiment get through to Villa management and it's better to be involved in that process rather than not. Of course, if you don't have time or the inclination, that's fine... but i'd hope that someone else from H&V could take up the 'position' on your behalf.
How about turning up but placing in a letter of complaint about how you feel the last meeting went?
Should I do that? It's a serious question.
Quote from: pablo_picasso on May 30, 2024, 11:18:29 AMHow about turning up but placing in a letter of complaint about how you feel the last meeting went?Personally, I feel that these things will only make the situation worse. If the meeting is to become productive then there needs to be a movement toward de-escalation.If you're seen as the enemy, you get treated like the enemy. And that's true for both camps.It seems to me the whole group is trapped in the whatever we do, they're just going to complain / whatever we say, they're not going to listen cycle.When I've been in situations like this I have always tried to have open and honest conversations with people about what is going wrong. I also make effort to be supportive and positive wherever possible and to be diplomatic and tactful where there are problems.But it takes time and commitment to build up the trust and relationships required to work together.The question I would have is whether the different fan group representatives are capable of working like this and together? Or do they have their own agendas and do some of them want to be seen to be fighting the good fight?
Let's send Team Footy.Agenda item 1 - a ban on all smut, filth, innuendo and general ribaldry at all times in the stands. A huge klaxon to be installed to cover up the swears.