Emi Martinez

[Rigadon]

I would not do this personally but there are guys out there when they suspect their missus of playing away forgive them fully and carry on - i'm not aware that many of those relationships ever get back to where they were.

I liken this to our beloved Girl flapping her over flirty eyes at a new bloke but rather than leaving it there she tells her mates she wants out to be with the new bloke and can they let him know via social media. You keep hearing rumours but give her the benefit of doubt.

Not only is the new bloke a lot richer than you - he is also the twat that bullied you through school so you hate him with a passion

Hard to fully forgive that. She may come back and we may have some future great times together - but it will never be the same 

An elaborate but strangely effective analogy. 

I'm generally agnostic if he goes in the winter / summer / stays for a couple more seasons.  He's fucked his Villa legacy up but so long as he does his job well, whatevs.