I had lunch with him once as a friend knew him well. He was a lovely bloke, but mad as a box of frogs. He also hated playing football and only did as he could make money for his family back home. I wish him well as he was a genuinely nice fella.
As with several players over the years, I thought he was going to be the "final piece of the jigsaw" in terms of making us the team to beat.It's when I hear stories about ex-players and their woes that I feel that the current crop (Will we soon see the first £100m transfer? Rooney on £250k a week? etc) are a heartless and miserable bunch. There's so much they could do to look after their own.
Quote from: Mister E on August 02, 2013, 06:25:19 PMAs with several players over the years, I thought he was going to be the "final piece of the jigsaw" in terms of making us the team to beat.It's when I hear stories about ex-players and their woes that I feel that the current crop (Will we soon see the first £100m transfer? Rooney on £250k a week? etc) are a heartless and miserable bunch. There's so much they could do to look after their own.I was talking about this only last night. Why not a percentage of a player's salary going into a fund for such cases. The Rooneys of this world wouldn't even notice it. Players doing their bit for their colleagues is an admirable cause.
It is always extremely sad to hear of anyone who is mentally ill and down on their luck. My deeper sympathies however are with those who never had a chance in life, not those who have had evrything and thrown it away.
Quote from: Navin R Johnson on August 02, 2013, 08:47:59 PMIt is always extremely sad to hear of anyone who is mentally ill and down on their luck. Myp deeper sympathies however are with those who never had a chance in life, not those who have had evrything and thrown it away.Mental illness doesn't give a shit about how much you have. Being good at football doesn't help in anyway.
It is always extremely sad to hear of anyone who is mentally ill and down on their luck. Myp deeper sympathies however are with those who never had a chance in life, not those who have had evrything and thrown it away.
The difference between the sad cases of famous footballers becoming metally ill and everyday people on the street becoming mentally ill is that there is a much better chance of the well known person having his or her illness spotted early and dealt with. Money comes into it because a person with a lot of money is very rarely isolated. The vast majority of the most abandoned and vulnerable in society have become so as a result of losing a support system - family, friends, colleagues or worse still never having had one. Those are the ones on whom I focus my charitable giving and my support.If you were to say to me that the thread raises the topic of mental illness not vagrancy or alcoholism I would reply that in my own experience and in the cases known to me personally it is chicken and egg. The one brings on the other.