Quote from: TheMalandro on November 12, 2016, 09:22:12 AMAs for auntiesledd - Really?It wasn't my intention to be racially insensitive, however in hindsight it was a very cheap shot & highly regrettable. I apologise sincerely to those I have offended and 'will make sure I engage what little brain I have before commenting in future. Sorry folks.
As for auntiesledd - Really?
Quote from: auntiesledd on November 12, 2016, 03:34:27 PMQuote from: TheMalandro on November 12, 2016, 09:22:12 AMAs for auntiesledd - Really?It wasn't my intention to be racially insensitive, however in hindsight it was a very cheap shot & highly regrettable. I apologise sincerely to those I have offended and 'will make sure I engage what little brain I have before commenting in future. Sorry folks.That's clearly a sincere apology for a throw away joke that you regret making. Fair enough and sorry to drag it up two days later but I'm amazed that you haven't been lynched on here for the joke or the description of it as 'racially insensitive'.Racially insensitive? What does that mean? You didn't realise that black people were sensitive to being called bastards?Your joke wasn't 'racially insensitive', it was a joke based on a racial prejudice that he's black therefore he's probably illegitimate.
Quote from: chrisf on November 14, 2016, 08:12:30 PMQuote from: auntiesledd on November 12, 2016, 03:34:27 PMQuote from: TheMalandro on November 12, 2016, 09:22:12 AMAs for auntiesledd - Really?It wasn't my intention to be racially insensitive, however in hindsight it was a very cheap shot & highly regrettable. I apologise sincerely to those I have offended and 'will make sure I engage what little brain I have before commenting in future. Sorry folks.That's clearly a sincere apology for a throw away joke that you regret making. Fair enough and sorry to drag it up two days later but I'm amazed that you haven't been lynched on here for the joke or the description of it as 'racially insensitive'.Racially insensitive? What does that mean? You didn't realise that black people were sensitive to being called bastards?Your joke wasn't 'racially insensitive', it was a joke based on a racial prejudice that he's black therefore he's probably illegitimate.As I have already said, it was an extremely regrettable comment I made. Since rightly being called-out for saying it, I've been having a serious think about my own prejudice; why I may subconsciously harbour thoughts that I ordinarily wouldn't display outwardly in my everyday life; and - most importantly - what I can do in the present & future to both address and then resolve them. You're absolutely right to point out that my comment wasn't 'racially insensitive' and was, in fact, racist. I couldn't bring myself to just say 'racist' (in isolation) at the time - as I hate to think of myself as being a racially prejudiced person and like to think of myself as a person who is sensitive towards others. Clearly I still have deep-seated attitudes to address if I am to be the individual I aspire to be, but work on them I will. A big part of me wishes I could turn the clock back and not make my comment in the first place, however that wouldn't address the prejudice I had at the time; and it wouldn't have created a situation where I can examine my attitude(s) and ignorance. I am genuinely sorry to those I have offended and I sincerely hope that I can put into practice that which I have already learned from this very regrettable situation.
Can we get back to the point please?Gabby is a fucking disgrace and I will be opening the champagne the day he finally leaves. He can score ten per game for now until the end of the season and that will barely make up for his attitude over the past five years.
Quote from: Bad English on November 15, 2016, 08:46:52 AMCan we get back to the point please?Gabby is a fucking disgrace and I will be opening the champagne the day he finally leaves. He can score ten per game for now until the end of the season and that will barely make up for his attitude over the past five years. This for me too.
Quote from: Percy McCarthy on November 14, 2016, 04:58:01 PMAll the responses to footyskillz' opus almost make me want to read it. But not quite.He's taken over your mantle as Gabby-champion
All the responses to footyskillz' opus almost make me want to read it. But not quite.