I think I remember the night in question. Didn't you say that you were actually in tears and then some other people said that you might need to look at your priorities?
Anyone else see this photo...
Quote from: Sexual Ealing on February 14, 2016, 11:55:47 PMI think I remember the night in question. Didn't you say that you were actually in tears and then some other people said that you might need to look at your priorities?I was probably one of them, and I stick by it. If your hobby makes THAT angry or sad or it gets to the point that it is actually affecting your life or relationships (as many have claimed), then seriously, get a new hobby.
The thing is, football isn't just a hobby is it. Making model aircraft or going train spotting is a hobby. Aston Villa is an historical community institution that runs through generations of families in the area and beyond. As part of a multi-billion pound industry it is also an important part of the local economy, it provides jobs and has a knock on effect across the whole region - pubs, food outlets, catering companies, taxi firms, printers... the list goes on. The fans have invested in it, both financially and emotionally, and its gradual decay affects people in all kinds of ways, which is why Randy Lerner's dereliction of duty is all the more disgraceful.I'm not going to blub over it, but by Christ it is a horrible thing to stomach.
It's not a hobby though is it? Being a fan of a football club is much more than that and well you know it. I hate this "get a new hobby if it affects you that much" routine that is thrown around when one fan has a problem with another. It's such a cheap shot as we all know that being a passionate football fan means you can't just switch off when things aren't going so well.
When are you attending your annual match Randy? Brave enough to face the fans? COWARD!
This place would be in meltdown if Randy found his bollocks and turned up.
Quote from: bertlambshank on February 15, 2016, 07:14:39 PMThis place would be in meltdown if Randy found his bollocks and turned up.He should sit in the Holte End for the Newcastle game.....
Quote from: saunders_heroes on February 15, 2016, 10:59:24 AMIt's not a hobby though is it? Being a fan of a football club is much more than that and well you know it. I hate this "get a new hobby if it affects you that much" routine that is thrown around when one fan has a problem with another. It's such a cheap shot as we all know that being a passionate football fan means you can't just switch off when things aren't going so well. No I don't know it. If I did I wouldn't have posted it, I don't post just for affect you know.Look, get as passionate as you like but in the end it's just football, it's a game. Yes we invest a lot in it both financially and emotionally but at the end of the day (match) you have to be able to put it all behind you and get on with your real life.If it is affecting you like some people claim it does then it's time to step away.