As many have said, it shouldn't be news; that aside I wish him well in his retirement and hope that he is happy in whatever direction life takes him. He always comes accross as an intelligent and articulate bloke so I wouldn't be surprised if a media career awaits him.Alternately a mentoring role may suit him well as he knows how it felt to move from his homeland at a young age and would be able to relate to.young players coming into a strange environment.
I think a lot of it is down to the media hyping up these stories. Does anyone think any less of him for announcing this? I doubt it. Will it change his post football work, doubt that too. He is the one that will benefit the most by being true to himself, that's the bravest bit in all of this.
Quote from: johnny from donny on January 08, 2014, 12:39:14 PMHere's to the day it's not news anymore. This. But it is still news in the football world.
Here's to the day it's not news anymore.
I'd echo what others have said and wonder why this should be newsworthy in 2014. One thing though, is it really *that* brave, considering he's now retired? Granted, I'd imagine coming out requires a degree of bravery under any circumstances (although would you really want to stay close to any relative / loved one who didn't accept your sexuality?), but for a footballer, coming out after you've retired is surely taking the big risk out of the equation?
Hitz is quoted in the Guardian saying that he didn't have a problem in dressing rooms in the UK, Italy or France.
For a horrible moment I thought he was coming out as blues fan!
Quote from: PeterWithe on January 08, 2014, 12:12:14 PMHitz is quoted in the Guardian saying that he didn't have a problem in dressing rooms in the UK, Italy or France.But he did in Germany? Also given it appears he was married/had a girlfriend when he played for the Villa it perhaps wasn't common knowledge. Having said which despite the many criticisms of modern footballers I can't imagine many being bothered by something like this, just like the vast majority of people in their own line of work. I can completely understand why footballers don't come out during their careers though As well as the potential abuse from fans and their own personal reasons they may have for not being "out" I think there would be a large degree of unfair pressure on a current pro coming out now & being the first, or one of the first. You would forever be labelled "the first gay footballer" and be seen as some sort of pioneer or trailblazer when you may well not want the attention. Given the goldfish bowl pressures a footballer has in their personal and professional life anyway I can imagine this being seen as an extra unnecessary burden. Sad but true.
Why is football singled out in this though. As a group of fairly hard-core supporters on here we seem pretty unanimous in the opinion that it's not big news, it doesn't change what we think of Der Hammer and fair play to him. I'd be interested to hear off anyone that has an alternative view to the general consensus? I bet there isn't one, which seems to me to say we are not the homophobic lot that we are made out to be in some quarters of the media and hence it ultimately shouldn't really be news!
Quote from: London Villan on January 08, 2014, 03:17:47 PMWhy is football singled out in this though. As a group of fairly hard-core supporters on here we seem pretty unanimous in the opinion that it's not big news, it doesn't change what we think of Der Hammer and fair play to him. I'd be interested to hear off anyone that has an alternative view to the general consensus? I bet there isn't one, which seems to me to say we are not the homophobic lot that we are made out to be in some quarters of the media and hence it ultimately shouldn't really be news!When we post on here we do so as individuals with balanced and reasoned views. Most of the time, anyway. But stick us in a stadium and amoidst the passion of a game and a group mentality can easily take over, which tends to be less balanced and reasoned.See Upson, M.
Quote from: Ger Regan on January 08, 2014, 02:37:38 PMI'd echo what others have said and wonder why this should be newsworthy in 2014. One thing though, is it really *that* brave, considering he's now retired? Granted, I'd imagine coming out requires a degree of bravery under any circumstances (although would you really want to stay close to any relative / loved one who didn't accept your sexuality?), but for a footballer, coming out after you've retired is surely taking the big risk out of the equation?Surely its better for him being a celebrity to just get it out their rather than tabloids and shitty gossip magazines spreading rumours and eventually outting him?