it's hard to feel sorry when they get so much and manage to waste it all. They don't always accept advice at the time, and they see themselves as invincible. Then a combination of their own largesse and others using them takes it's toll until one day the card gets declined at a store or restaurant and it starts to sink in that they're fucked.
As he said to some kids when driving off in his Ferrari after he got sent off at Tamworth: "You might afford one of these one day." Taxi for Mr Hendrie.