Think both decisions were correct but the England disallowed penalty was much closer to being a penalty than the Norwegian disallowed goal was to being a goal. You can't just push people over with two hands, unless you're playing for Arsenal.
Looked the other way around from where I was sitting.
The Haaland shove was pretty soft in that Eliot went down very easily. He was caught on his heels, watching his man rather than the ball. Haaland did not seem to be intending to push his opponent over, but to escape from him. If every such offence was called at corners, there would be mayhem.
For the peno, Spence clearly diverts his stride away from the path of the ball and into the natural (legal) path of his opponent.
They were both close calls and we've all seen them given. But it seemed to me that taken together, and factoring in the deliberate nature of Spence's change of stride, justice seemed slightly rougher on Norway than England.