The answer of course is you come to an agreement with the girlfriend, you don't ask her to watch the Villa and she doesn't ask you to go shopping.I watched a show last night about Pakistan where Islamabad featured regularly, apparently they have fifteen nuclear weapons scattered around, what can you see from your window?
I usually start with buying a pair of shoes...then a handbag to match the shoes....Then I think...Hmm now I have that handbag I could do with another pair of shoes to match it....then....OOoh now that other handbag there would go with the 2nd pair of shoes that I bought...Then that is usually followed by...I should buy another pair of shoes to go with that 2nd handbag so that I get my use out of it. Then...of course another handbag to match the pair of shoes that go with the handbag that matches the 3rd shoes... or something like that....& it goes on from there.Then I get worried that I will have no room for all of them
Trouble is struggling to justify treating myself as it is rather expensive. :-k