If you mean why are there such long gaps between matches, it's because the players need recovery time. You can't play two matches in three days at this level of intensity.
Its not the Ref, it's the England players failure to grasp some of the basic laws of the game, like not diving on the floor at a ruck and failing to release the ball when tackled
If anything, England are looking worse in the second half.They're really missing Ben Youngs