I'm afraid I can't help with contacts at the club but I'm sorry to hear about your family's loss Phil.
I have. PM me for contact details. Sorry for your loss.
What an awful tragedy - regards to your familyI am sure the villa would offer something they are pretty good at this sort of thing
Commiserations for your loss and I hope the club are able to help. I'd be happy to bung a few quid if there is a JustGiving page or something like that.