Picking up on your point Stuart I agree about us all being Jekyll and Hyde. I know I am, big time but there does come a point when self control and self preservation has to kick in.
Coming out of the Norwich game a young Villa fan whose age I would estimate at 18-20 became so upset he started to kick violently a steel rubbish skip. That was entirely certain to end in A and E so I stepped between him and the skip. He started to rage at me and call me a c*nt. It came very close to him venting his anger on me but I had my brick shithouse son Lucas with me and me needing A and E was averted.
Two morals, don't kick skips. Know where to draw the line of Villa anger.