It just seems to be the way. Everyone knows it happens like that. I don't really see a difference. If someone gets their head turned then there's little you can do about it. If we'd gone about getting McLeish via the "official" channels, then even with their best efforts to keep it from him, his owners would have no chance. He'd get wind of it through some channel or another. Same with players.
Who cares though? If they're gonna go they're gonna go.